Right on Jimi!
It's all good in my books if someone mentions they are a friend of someones. Everybody does that - is it not a part of kiwi culture to say something along the lines of 'what school did you go to'/'do you know so and so'?
But to claim over the internet youve slept with someone is lower than lame. No need to justify the reasons why.
Erin darling...his name is Milan - he's not an asian disney character.