a couple of days back I found myself reminding someone "don't forget your sunscreen" miss-quoting from the address to the class of '97....
The whole thing got me thinking about advice and passed on wisdom, as well as that whole if I knew then, what I know now,,,,, so
what advice would you give to your younger self or what is the best advice you have been given?
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don't waste your chances....
don't waste your chances.
Stop trying so hard to fit in....
Stop trying so hard to fit in.
try harder to fit in....
try harder to fit in.
its better to be pissed off than pissed ...
its better to be pissed off than pissed on.
My mum told me this, in regards to ...
My mum told me this, in regards to dating:
"Do whatever you want until someone puts a ring on your finger."
And then my dad added:
"But don't be stupid about it."
I think that pretty much covers it.
never date a person who wants to pick ...
never date a person who wants to pick your clothes and your friends
and
never ask a question if you aren't able to acpect the answer
Whatever you do don't look down....
Whatever you do don't look down.
you wanna be a writer? then write. ...
you wanna be a writer? then write. now.
you wanna be a painter? start painting. now.
you wanna be _____? then do it.
(i'm trying not to come off like the nike logo, but it's too true..)
I agree, htat maybe the single best bit ...
I agree, htat maybe the single best bit of advice there is...
don't sit with your head in the clouds, go out and get it... scary though.
"here take this, it's called ecstasy"...
"here take this, it's called ecstasy"
agreed. Get happy, you winey little ...
agreed.
Get happy, you winey little fuckwit.
And get some decent clothes.
"save the planet and kill urself!" ...
"save the planet and kill urself!" hands manamana some hanging ropes :P
you're damned if you do & damned if ...
you're damned if you do & damned if you don't
youre a fucking jerk- were all fucking ...
youre a fucking jerk- were all fucking jerks- accept that & youll be cool
if it ain't dead, shot it again!!...
if it ain't dead, shot it again!!
stop ignoring your better judgement...
stop ignoring your better judgement
Forget about stupid crap men - get your ...
Forget about stupid crap men - get your degree. Doesn't matter how long it takes.
the internet is shit. the story ...
the internet is shit.
the story behind that song being a case in point...
[ http://www.internetisshit.org/ ]
Get a financial education....
Get a financial education.
This one is to live by: If three ...
This one is to live by:
If three birds are sitting on a wire and 2 decide to fly away, how many are left?
just the male?...
just the male?
three are left, it's just that two of ...
three are left, it's just that two of the three are somewhere else.
thats real nice....
thats real nice.
better to sit on the corner of your ...
better to sit on the corner of your roof than in the house with a nagging wife...
or so i have heard
don't take yourself so seriously....
don't take yourself so seriously.
oh, and everyone is just as insecure as ...
oh, and everyone is just as insecure as you are, so they're too busy thinking about how much they suck to worry about how much you suck.
Some musical advice: When starting ...
Some musical advice:
When starting out, learn music from a private teacher, not from the internet and books alone.
Completely self-trained musicians are shit musicians 9 times out of 10. At best, they will take two or three times as long to get to the same standard as a "good" privately taught musician.
Having the best gear won't make you a better musician.
Head and cabinet amps are fucking heavy and don't do a better job than a good combo.
Being able to sing is a huge asset, no matter what instrument you play.
Music theory is not a bad thing - the more you know, the easier and faster you can express your ideas.
// Completely self-trained musicians ...
// Completely self-trained musicians are shit musicians 9 times out of 10. At best, they will take two or three times as long to get to the same standard as a "good" privately taught musician.
you are so bloody condescending for someone we have never heard of.
I'm not trying to be condescending, ...
I'm not trying to be condescending, I'm telling it like it is. Is it really relevant that you haven't heard of me? If I was in the Datsuns or some band that you think is great (like, say, Die Die Die) would that make my comments more relevant?
I have played in bands with people who say they are "self-taught" and quite apart from the romantic notion that self-taught players are more creative and unrestricted by conventional thinking, I have found them to be consistently more difficult to work with, as well as slower to improve.
A good teacher streamlines the whole process for the student, getting him/her from A to B much faster than a book or the internet can.
Also, a teacher will spot any bad technique and immediately correct it, saving the student from forming a bad habit that, in the case of a self-taught person, might never be corrected and may lead to RSI.
Well, The Deputy. I learned myself ...
Well, The Deputy. I learned myself with no training. I never really wanted to be good... I just wanted to play. And now I play like me.
I think that if you are trying for good technique, then go for it - get trained and shred away, but I myself tend to listen to how things sound... and if it sounds good to me then I'm happy... and the technical guy sitting over there saying that the technique is all wrong can just bite me.
There was an article in a recent NZ ...
There was an article in a recent NZ Musician about the difference between a guitarist and a musician - it discussed how a lot guitarists are self-taught and as a result they get to a certain (perfectly good) level but then they hit a wall.
- Proper training allows musicians to communicate a lot more effectively with each other because they've learnt a common annotation and the like. Because of the removal of these barriers, it follows that these musicians are freer to focus on more innovative ideas. The whole 'learning how to learn' thing kicks in.
- Also, as the Deputy mentioned good technique counts for a lot as well. I've heard of plenty of self-trained musicians (especially drummers) who have real problems with OOS.
In short although it *is* unintentionally condescending and although '90% of self-taught musicians are shit' is definitely an exaggeration, I agree with the Deputy that learning from a qualified teacher is worth it.
//Because of the removal of these ...
//Because of the removal of these barriers, it follows that these musicians are freer to focus on more innovative ideas. The whole 'learning how to learn' thing kicks in.
Of course, it can also be argued that a classical training will stifle creativity, and there are definitely some naturally talented musicians that benefited from not having constraints imposed by a teacher...etc
whats the hurry though?...
whats the hurry though?
I don't really see it as a ...
I don't really see it as a getting-good-fast issue - but on average I wager that classically trained musicians are more technically proficient, and better able to communicate their ideas than self-trained musicians.
Please note I'm not saying self-taught musicians are no good, but for a naturally talented musician with a lot of exciting ideas, I think some lessons with a good teacher for even a couple of years through school would make the subsequent playing/composing process a lot less frustrating.
RE music tuition- Yeah I'm not sure if ...
RE music tuition- Yeah I'm not sure if that's what you might call 'universal' good advice, but I'm glad it worked for you and it does work for people who react well to tuition.
//Yeah I'm not sure if that's what ...
//Yeah I'm not sure if that's what you might call 'universal' good advice, but I'm glad it worked for you and it does work for people who react well to tuition.
Hah! Very diplomatic. I confess I'm painfully aware of the fact that it's people that took lessons that say that lessons are necessary, and those that didn't who say they're not. I don't think I've ever met anyone that said "I wish I'd taken lessons when I had the chance", and I've definitely never met a musician that said "geez, I wish I'd never bothered with lessons".
i don't think there's any shame in ...
i don't think there's any shame in being self-taught, if nice guy eddie's self taught and has made it so comfortably into as many bands as he has then this "theory is boss" theory really doesn't wash ... lots of good musicians were self-taught.
wow another case of open a reply window ...
wow another case of open a reply window get distracted wait an hour or so and type two lines
//// Also, this from my fourth form ...
////
Also, this from my fourth form Maori teacher after hearing my school band rehearse:
"You guys are all good individually, but you need to listen to eachother!"
I can;t remember you being in my Maori class, but I think you referring to Sean Ogden no???
Sean was very right in saying that. He has rythmn and melody, but then again so did most of his students. His advice spoke through some of my mates who used to pick up his guitar and jam with it, whether they happened to be Maori waiata or simply the only Metallica riff we ALL knew.
what possible sense is their in not ...
what possible sense is their in not learning music theory? It beggars belief that anyone can expect to have any sort of career without this fundemental skill. Unless your just another wannabe thinking your self contained top40 band is going to keep you feed for the next 35 years by choosing to not read your limiting your musical ability, options and earning power greatly. if anyone reading this can post can offer an intelligent reason as to how selecting to not learn to read the language of our beloved craft is a good option i'd love to read it.
I remember it beingcompulsory to do te ...
I remember it beingcompulsory to do te reo maori- I'm hazy now whether it was untill fourth form or not- Wasn't it? Point is I remember him more for what he said than what class he taught.
//I remember it beingcompulsory to do ...
//I remember it beingcompulsory to do te reo maori- I'm hazy now whether it was untill fourth form or not-
Nope. Unfortunatley Maori was only ever a compulsory option in 3rd form. I remember quite clearly.
It could only be true if the the devil ...
It could only be true if the the devil exists ... but "it" doesn't ... so maybe he just practiced long and hard ... which is perhaps not the best phrase given the subject matter of many of his songs ... "think I'll dust my broom" ...
Actually I was reading a book last night ... as ya do ... and there was a suggestion in there that he certainly had at least one mentor, if not a teacher ... I forget the name ... it was in that book about the Stones ... "Old Gods Almost Dead" ... interesting book.
//you gotta remember that all the ...
//you gotta remember that all the people who write for nzmusician
does not that guitar guy from Kitset write for them now and again. he was a brilliant musician in my opinion.
hmmm... i'm self taught and immensely ...
hmmm... i'm self taught and immensely happy with my teacher, but that's only because i taught myself listening to all the music i like and playing along with it (they being my 'teachers', not me, heh). and i like a wide range of music. the idea of having one or two or even ten professional music teachers makes my skin crawl a little. sounds a bit limiting to me.
i'd rather sit in a cold 2m X 4m flat playing electric bass acoustically to keep warm, pretending i'm in the Clean or something. heh. or any other song that gets stuck in my head and i need to find out how to play it to exorcise it.
Jesus.....I shoudl have guessed that ...
Jesus.....I shoudl have guessed that people were going to get up in arms about this. Like Heather said, no one who is self-taught wishes they had lessons, and no one who has had lessons wishes they were self-taught.
Actually Lena, I have taught a lot of people, maybe 100, aged between 8 years old and 50 years old.
I have only taught music theory to those that wanted to learn it, palm muting for the metallers, even how to set up your amp for various sounds, whatever. I have attended students' band practices and helped young teenage bands get stuff happening faster than they would on their own, which to me is a big part of why you would go to a teacher in the first place.
I have used the songs my students are particularly into as examples of how to write a certain type of song, so that it is relevant to the student and interesting and fun for them. As a teacher, my goal has always been to help students unlock the magic of their favourite artists' songs by understanding what is happening, and why one thing sounds good while another does not. I have had many parents tell me how their child loves coming to lessons with me and gets really inspired, and that to me is about all a guitar teacher could hope to do.
Incidentally, Johnny Fleury was one of my teachers circa 1998, and he used to have a similar effect on me.
I wrote a booklet for students to use, covering things like open chords, barre chords, pentatonics (major and minor), diatonic scales (major and minor), how to strum in time (with several popular strumming patterns to practice), improvisation, names of the frets, building triads (major, minor), extended chords etc. Over the years, students of mine have shown this booklet to their self-taught friends and these friends have contacted me and requested a copy for themselves, which I have happily given them. I can't understand why anyone would want to remain ignorant of the musical conventions by which musicians understand each other and use to communicate with each other, except maybe some delusion about being completely unrestricted, and not having to obey "the rules". In my experience, the least experienced musicians generally tend to write the most cliched music. If you don't know the rules, how can you break them?
I agree that most teachers aren't particularly good for their students, and teach as an easy way to earn a regular paycheck, rather than because they are particularly passionate about imparting knowledge.
As I said before, I believe the notion of the brilliant untrained musician is by and large a romantic fantasy.
I would wager that any of the untrained musicians on these pages would find a few visits to a good teacher to be both enlightening and hugely beneficial, but that's my opinion as a trained musician, so of course the untrained people are going to disagree, and it is their right to do so.
Finally, to the person who said you learn the most from playing in a band, I could not agree more. To anyone still in high school who is thinking about doing rockquest but thinks they might not be good enough, do it. Even if you've been playing for three months, geta band together and go for it. There is nothing to lose and you'll learn a lot, meet heaps of like-minded people and have a whole lot of fun. Even if you don't get anywhere, you'll love it, and you'll be better prepared for next year. Get your teacher to help you....
well his songs tell tittles tell a tale ...
well his songs tell tittles tell a tale of someone running from the devil...
I am tired of not knowing how to write ...
I am tired of not knowing how to write music notation- I know exactly what I want to hear, what each instument is doing, the way each instrument is played, the sound of the ensemble, but I have know way of getting it out of my head and onto a piece of paper to go back to. Oh, the FRUSTRATION! So this year is the year I start learning it. I said that last year, but I don't think I was frustrated enough last year to go through with it.
Thats the one foetusboy. no musician ...
Thats the one foetusboy. no musician I've heard of who has learnt theory has said its a bad thing. Look at all the non readers who think years down the track "if only" or " I shoulda". sir paul mcCartney is a fairly good example of that i think. you'll have the benifit of using any teacher regardless of instrument [you only want the theory] or check the libarary for sources. the complete electric bass Player by Chuck Rainey, and serious electric bass by Joel di bartolo have been indespensible to me, nearly as much use as standing in the Shadows of motown , and Funkmasters [ the great James browwn bands] both by allan slutsky. good luck for the gig tonight.
but robert johnson cheated big stu, or ...
but robert johnson cheated big stu, or so romour has it. one day crap, ridiculed by other musicians about his uselessness, then several months later the greatest guitarist of his time, how?
well most people know the story. make for a topic on its own, folk stories, true or false? you decide.
see you at the cross roads
I'll shut up now