"Your spelling and grammar is as gay-assed as it comes, fuckstain. "

And speaking of grammar... shouldn't that have been "ARE as gay-assed as THEY come"? ;o)

... It happens! :)

Seeing as we're on language here though... what I find objectionable about this ad is the use of the term "gay-assed". I mean, we have a perfectly good equivalent in "gay-arsed", so why lower one's self to using these prudish American circomlocutions? (did I spell that right?)

And why "gay-assed" (or even "gay-arsed")?

If the people posting this ad were male, I could almost understand that, But even though these people could have said "gay-vaginaed drummer", they still prefer to associate the rectum with their homosexuality. Sounds very immature, sexually speaking.

But is their arse any more gay than their left eyebrow? Or their right femur? Why can't they ask for a "gay-left-femured drummer"? It'd make just as much sense and it would sound a lot less like pointless trolling.

Yep this website is sooo queer friendly alright ...hey daina we're in Wellington so I guess it would be a long way to commute for practice!

hey klowy - cheers chick...hmm only problem is were are in Welly and you are in Orkland. Otherwise it could have been a beautiful thing..I guess we'll keep looking. ..

//wow yeah this website is obviously really really queer friendly k rd kween(yeah right), uh like, kiss my ass you patronising twat...

jesus... awesome conflict-seeking skills you have there... you'd be GREAT to work with.

btw, I by, no means, said NZM. com was gay friendly. I meant , the arts/music/culture community ,generally, as a whole... like... people? fuctioning in the arts community? in real life? yknow?. Maybe you should try and become part of it? o... you are trying.... this is NOT the place to start. Maybe you should seperate your sex life from your band..... (who gives a shit what you do behind closed doors)..... your bands waiting to suck... HARD.
Heard of the gay-rights chick band Partyline? They suck and piss themselves on stage..... Classy... now thats a "music" scene I wanna be part of..... great way to get attention when you can't play instruments... yeah....
something to concider...

ok, thanks for clarifying that

//Hmmm krdprincess you have used the word 'should' quite a few times in your posts about how 'gay-friendly' evryone is these days, (presumably including you?) - whats your problem lady? I don't care who you fuck either. Being gay is kinda cultural as well as sexual you ignorant dingbat. Like um how many posts on here specify an age range, or a musical style? Grow up and fuck off and stop bothering folk goin' about their lawful business with alla your 'shoulds'. Dickhead.

ok, because Im hetro, Im a princess? a female cliche that you obviously hate? Im probably the furtherest you can get from a princess.

You mentioned the word "gay" or 'queer" 5 or 6 times within 3 lines of text with out mention anything musical... you're not about music at all... its all a facard for some fuct reason. You're visiting this site, not to find good band members for music's sake.... you're here saying... HEY HEY LOOK AT ME IM GAY LOOK AT ME LOOK AT ME -GOT A PROBLEM MATE?..... your seem very proud about your sexual oreintation... but hey guess what... we don't give a fuck. We (other's apart from you) are here to talk about music.... you're just... gay gay gay... Im bored. Im not here to talk about gay issues.... if I was Id be in a gay... forum... hmm hmmm, where you SHOULD be, to find band mates..... you can't even see me trying to help...

so yeah - culture... bah! Its an image thing if you flaunt it - why don't us hetros get culture with our sexual oreintation too? Why is being gay so special... no one cares anymore, its fucking 2006 now? Everyones kinda over listening to "downtrodden" gays.

Im done, thanx for the mildly ammusing trans-tasman bitch slaps... its been fun... have fun talking about how gay you are with people who care... cheers.

... Could this ''tommygun" person just be another fake nzmusic login account trying to wrench out another heated reaction with lyric of forked tongue... i wonder ... i'm just a bit cynical of these forums now... every time i see a post where someone is "fuck" and "you suck", i just go "good for you, winner".... oh well....