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Oh.

Wow.

...well then.

I really have nothing to add.

I laughed first, cringed second, got bored of reading JC's posts third.

Well who doesn't love a good sexual assult every now and then eh?

Seriously JC, do you really think this is a good place for that kind of post?

Christian sexual assault : not asking her parents first.
Normal sexual assault : not asking HER first.

i hope it was the former???

// i don't actually get why you people have to get all PC about it,

it's not the PCness of it all, it's just the cringeworthiness factor.

I mean, here we all are, talking about 'good times', and you're reminiscing over some girl you sexually assaulted, and who then you took you back as a friend. that might count as a moment of redemption, a personal triumph, or something else besides, but it's hardly up with what I would consider a 'good time'.

// it's like saying don't talk about Graham Capill's paedophilia
// and that suppression order should've stayed on - why?

The suppression order was to protect Capill until his guilt was proved, after which discussion of his crimes was all over the media because of the sheer magnitude of his crimes, and his position in society. Your crime, on the other hand, is something I don't think we need to particularly hear about. And, despite your own take on christian honesty, I don't think Capill sits around in the prison exercise yard talking about his paedophilic exploits with his fellow cons?

// being totally scared but comforted when the pastor put his hand on my shoulder

sex crimes, capill, 'friendly' pastors...

//invited me to her house for lunch 3 years later and treated me like a normal friend instead of a stalker
//

sounds like she did that more for her, than for you, jesuscrux.

He's not a boy, he's 21/22 and spills his guts out to strangers, gives away personal details, phone numbers etc.

what's annoying with you JC is that you're realitively normal looking and yet you're wasting your youth being a dweeb. You could have friends, a life, just by being a little less intense.

sorry that was a bit harsh but i really think youse are being like, for example if a prostitute walks into a Church and all the congregation gets all tightass about it, the question of the topic was "what were your 5 top good times" and i answered it just as i'd answer it if you asked me that in person. i didn't reply to foetusboy's post and say "gee, this is not a child psychology message board where you reminiscent about your childhood, go tell it to your therapist" or something stupid like that

// rope, if you really wanna know you can e-mail me

RH - assuming this woman has forgiven you in the past for your earlier transgression, do you think she'll be equally as forgiving of you for talking about the incident in a public forum, and passing on specific details via email to people you don't actually know?

i wasn't gonna give out her name, and i don't actually need you to tell me what i should be posting and what i shouldn't you make it seem like i haven't thought about these things

and you obviously couldn't understand that my sarcasm in replying to rope. the same old "get help" line when you can't just admit youse are too PC, stop putting so much pressure on the mental health system they actually have real patients who need real help they're not some teaching social niceties service

You really don't get the concept of "too much information", do you? This isn't political correctness gone mad, and, in keeping with your "you're only upset because I'm a christian" I suggest your calls of PC are purely due to your bias against the loony left that dominates this board.

THIS HAS PERPLEXED ME FOR MONTHS: you seem to view this internet community in completely contradictory ways:

1. you're still lonely & you throw so all this effort into posting here in the hopes that you'll be able to forge meaningful relationships with other members. (makes some sense, that's how I made my best friends; but exposing yourself so prematurely just freaks people out. Seriously, starting a sentence with "when the girl I sexually assaulted" is like walking around naked, and then saying "what??? it's perfectly natural!")

2. Because it's "just the internet" it's easy to fob everyone off. I know people like white rhino just like winding you up and they're worth ignoring, but all you've ever done is argue, despite some logical comments from some smart people. Your final line of defense is that people are attacking your christianity, but they're not - they're attacking your arrogance. & before you post a sarcastic comment about how I - some random that's never even met you - must know you so well, I suggest you think about this very point, pray if you need to, because when you post your responses, you don't really think, you only justify.

I wrote another rope post, but then I chickened out of posting it.

Here, here, Heather ...

how about this - if i post something, reply to it only if you have something to add, rather than judge it. simple as that. i was simply answering a question, and i didn't do it 'cos i "wanted to make friends" or whatever, it was a good question which actually made me sit down and think "hmm, what were the top five good times in my life?" and i answered it just as i would have answered it if i asked the question myself. get over it

I hope the next girl you "touch" kicks you hard in the balls. Really hard.

speaking of killing puppies, i am a vegetarian how about you? if you're not you make me sick

the point i was making about the name was that it's not to prevent her from knowing it was her i was talking about, in fact she should know. it's like saying a murderer who came out of jail after parole shouldn't talk about his past because there was a victim. the point of not giving out the name is so that you people don't know who she is, so that for example youse can't point to her and say hey aren't you the chick who got indecently molested by me, not so that these social issues shouldn't be talked about at all. for example if my friend committed suicide, it would be stupid to say i shouldn't talk about it because his sister was affected because she would realise it was him i was talking about. it would however be stupid if i said and by the way this is his name, and this person is his sister

...or maybe it is? Innapropriate posts > no posts at all.

//in keeping with your "you're only upset because I'm a christian"

Actually, I was thinking about this, after thinking about Gardner the other day. I think in some odd way, RH thrives on the sense of persecution, with him perceiving it validates the difference between his spiritual beliefs and ours.
In contrast, as you note Heather, it's far more to do with social skills than his belief set, and nothing to do with socialism or being PC. Ironically, I wonder if he doesn't see that because of the socialist nature of the church. Here, if you're being a dick, you get treated like a dick, but in a church context, the social welfare really is social... providing a friend network that you haven't earned...

///the question of the topic was "what were your 5 top good times" and i answered it just as i'd answer it if you asked me that in person.

Just a wee tip here JC, - If ever actually asked in person "what were your 5 top good times" I'd be kinda careful about giving the answer you did

//oh really? we gotta meet up sometime, pity you probably don't have the balls to meet me

No shit - Why would anyone want to meet Mr Molesto with the happy hands?

///as for the chick, i don't know, but pretty much everyone we know knows about it 'cos she's talked about it

I bet her dad & big brothers don't know about it though aye JC, wait until she starts talking about it publicly with the police

interesting that not once have you stated that you regretted or in any way felt bad about doing it . . . ??

interesting that you don't know anything about the situation, that you think i haven't felt bad about something like that, that you think there's any reason why i'd have to justify myself and say it here when i've simply stuck to the topic by saying what my good times were, that Jesus died for us yet not everyone feels bad about that and continue to deny Him, etc. etc.

//oh really? we gotta meet up sometime, pity you probably don't have the balls to meet me //

please don't imply that i'd be the next girl you "touch" you fucking sick freak. and yes. if i ever had the "balls" to meet you, i'd happily firmly wedge my boot in your crotch. guys like you make me fucking sick.