Does anyone here dislike Wellington?

man i think i'm really beginning to dislike it here, it's ok for a few days but i can't really imagine being here long term, something about the overwhelming cityness, like all the shops and cars and tall buildings and stuff, gets tiring really easily. maybe it's just 'cos i live in the city centre though and was mainly in residential areas when i was in Christchurch and Nelson

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no idea watchu talk about...

i think there is a small town on the west coast where they only have one storied buildings and still ride around on horses and i think their last shop just closed up last year. you should look into it.

The bigGER cities in NZ are an acquired taste - any new city will be difficult and strange for at least three months after you move there, and possibly as many as six. You just have to get used to the differentness. I moved to Wellington after living in Palmerston North (ie, Christchurch only more grey & without the pretty buildings), and I got ridiculously claustrophobic - the same kind of problem you appear to be having. Six months later I had a great job, good friends, a nice flat with a view and I couldn't imagine living anywhere else.

So, your options are to just slog it out while you're getting used to the place and (very important) finding some friends, or ingrain the idea into your head through repetition that you don't like it, move back to christchurch, and probably have the same problem if you ever move to a different city again (or even worse, overseas).

thanks for that Heather, i'm really glad to hear things worked out for ya : D

//differentness//

differences?????

Differentness - a state of being different.

I'd like to point out NZ doesn't have any BIG cities..

:P

:-)

christchurch is bigger than wellington, wellington is just all squashed in so it has more of a big city feel...

wellington region population: 328,300
wellington city population: 148,000
land area: City 26,625 hectares

Christchurch Region population: 481,431
Christchurch city population: 344,100 (2004)
land area: 45,240 hectares

christchurch is also larger than a lot of cities overseas that people would think are big,
such as Cincinnati which is home to 331 285 people

I never knew that about Christchurch. Doesn't make me like it any better though...

You obviously have never experienced christchurch with the right people.

//You obviously have never experienced christchurch with the right people. //

That's the problem. Isolated pockets of decent people...

//You obviously have never experienced christchurch with the right people.

That could very well be true, but I have experienced plenty of freaky crazy Christchurch people.

On a completely unrelated note, I'm very excited about meeting you...

//I have experienced plenty of freaky crazy Christchurch people.

ahem...

be prepared for another one.

For some reason I always get a weird and somewhat unpleasant vibe whilst in christchurch

Same! I really do! And the opposite is true for Wanaka and to a lesser extent Wellington. I really like Wellington.

That’s not very Absolutely, Positively Wellington of you JesusCrux.

When you’ve been away for awhile, then you come home, driving down the Ngauranga gorge, and then you come around that first corner up on the motorway . . . and there she is . . . . the most beautiful little city in the world . . . man I never get sick of that . . . I even love the wind

If all the hustle & bustle does get to you, it’s so quick & easy to get away from it for awhile just by simply checking out the bays, I like just chilling out round the Shelly bay side of Evans bay just watching the sail boats & stuff, and you just can’t go past the southern coast bays in the evenings (with some fish & chips of course) . . . . man how can you dislike this city . .????

//I even love the wind

I can't sleep when it's quiet out.

Yeah exactly, how do you know you’re alive if you can’t feel the wind in your face?

You can always pick an out-of-towner, they’re the ones with umbrellas . . . .

// driving down the Ngauranga gorge, and then you come around that first corner up on the motorway . . . and there she is . . . . the most beautiful little city in the world . . . man I never get sick of that . . . I even love the wind

Sounds very similar to a quote from a Witi Ihimaera book I read once... it is quoted in that little rock garden thing which sticks out into the lagoon at Frank Kitt's park, isn't it? Or was is Maurice Gee?

ooh crap, not sure?
I’ve never heard of Witi Ihimaera or Maurice Gee, or read anything on a little rock garden thing which sticks out into the lagoon at Frank Kitt's park, weird . . . might go and check it out now though.
If I have plagiarised it’s truly by accident.
Suppose it goes to show I’m not the only one who loves that view . . .

err wait, Maurice Gee a Bee Gee right??

The story was about a Maori family moving to Wellington, told from the perspective of a young child.

There is a beautiful description of seeing Wellington upon coming out from the gorge... and knowing that everything will be OK... all his/her fears about moving to a big city dissappeared.

Witi and Maurice are NZ literary greats... Witi wrote The Whale Rider, and has won many literary awards for his many works. Maurice Gee wrote The Half Men of O (which is being made into a feature film, by the way - NZ fantasy films ahoy!) and In My Father's Den (a very good feature film, I hear.)

Maurice Gee at Bookcouncil.org.nz
Witi Irhimaera at the same place

Ah, goddamnit - was my amateur HTML faulty - or can't we do that kind of stuff?

//Maurice Gee a Bee Gee right??

Well you can tell by the way I use my walk
I'm a Welly man, no time to talk
Coffee's hot and wind is cold
I wear black, colour's too bold
And now it's all right, it's okay
Jesus Crux can go away
We can try to understand
The Dominion Post's effect on man
Whether you're a musician
Or whether you're a statistician
You're stayin' alive, staying alive
Feel the city shaking
the fault-line is braking
But we're staying alive, staying alive

Someone else get the next verse

//Well you can tell by the way I use my walk
I'm a Welly man, no time to talk
Coffee's hot and wind is cold
I wear black, colour's too bold
And now it's all right, it's okay
Jesus Crux can go away
We can try to understand
The Dominion Post's effect on man
Whether you're a musician
Or whether you're a statistician
You're stayin' alive, staying alive
Feel the city shaking
the fault-line is braking
But we're staying alive, staying alive//

I haven't posted for sooo long, but this has gotta bring me outta the woodwork ... BRILLIANT!!! Takes out "You can't beat Wellington on a Good Day", at any rate.

Gold, Joanna. The musician/statistician line got me LOLing all over the show.

oh man I feel stink now . . . (brothers GIBB) . . .

and I haven't even watched Whale Rider the movie let alone read the book . . . .

// can't we do that kind of stuff?

no linkee except in the box. only bold and italics...

In My Father's Den is a fantastic (but slightly bleak) movie. I really loved Maurcie Gee's kids work (and still do), but I can't get over how few people have read his grown up people books. There's another movie called Fracture (based on Crime Story), which I haven't seen. (Actually I hadn't realised it had been released -- the film company went bust along the way).

//Gold, Joanna. The musician/statistician line got me LOLing all over the show.

Cheers, that's the post I'm most proud of this year, and I was feeling very underappreciated for it.

I sang it to offline NZMers. Much appreciated.

. . . . So I guess you didn't take that stroll along the southern coast then Jesuscrux???

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Wellington rocks. Best place in NZ IMO.

When I first moved to Auckland, I hated it until about a year later when I set up my own flat with my own friends, and things were much better after that, it became home. Until of course I had to run away screaming from it, but that wasn't for another five years. Maybe Wellington's the same for you?

I had a similar experience with wellington. I had a hard time adjusting to it, but had a couple of brilliant years thanks to having some good flatmates, (and some bad but fun ones) and actually hanging out with local people.

The first year I was there I barely met anyone who wasn't from christchuch, once I got past that and was taken under the wing of a local person, who showed me there was more to wellington than just the city it was pretty good. (even if this local did live in Tawa at the time)

hush your mouth.. tawa 4 eva!!!

How many times did you get mentioned in the herald when you were in christchurch? Maybe this wellington thing is working for you...

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Man, that's a bit harsh

He dissing the wellington (and pimping The Garden City)...

Or do you mean Coddington?

The Coddington thing. Much as I find his views offensive, it's not like he's trolling behind a fake identity.

what's worse: blogging about blogging or writing a newspaper column about blogging?

deborah coddington is a poor writer

Quoting Coddington: 'I'd not visited the weird world of bloggers but a colleague last week told me my columns were the subject of much comment...'

Thing is, that's exactly how it reads- like someone who discovered blogging last week. What about JC getting a mention though, huh?! Wahey!!

jc, have you explored much of the rest of the city? Or the other nearby towns?

Aren't you living in unicomm? I mean that would fuck up anyones perspective of Wellington. Chuck you in a building full of non-wellingtonians and see what happens

Unicomm is not living... it is like being at Boarding school... meals in cafetarias, washing done for you, nazis in charge of each floor, right? And the idiots I see spilling out of those places just make me cringe... and cross the road.

Bloody awful place.

Totally get what you mean but not entirely true...I lived in Unicomm when I first came down here, was in an apartment style situ, cooked my own food and noones washings done for them....however, it is like a boarding school - rules, alcohol confiscation that sort of thing......noone should let their opinion on Wellington be shaped by HOSTEL LIFE...its just not the same!
There are so many different facets to Wellington City, not all tall buildings at all....perhaps you should adventure out of Willis Street and maybe next year don't LIVE in a highrise building if you don't like them....you'd be a lot happier.

Try Beijing.