when i was 15/16ish i was in contact with a fellow called ricky
and he said some shit about his band (the shinning path) being pretty good.
so i decided to see how good they were
i'd kind of listened to music
not really though
i went
it was two lane black top and the shinning path
and i was blown away
for two years i went solidly using up all my money ($10 a week or something like that) to pay the door charge and get in
i wasn't interested in the alcohol
i could get it much cheaper from new world
i wanted to see the bands
i saw batrider when they first started playing
the last letterbox lambs gig
heaps of two lane black top
marystaple
rawer
seeing these bands really opened my eyes to music and pushed me headlong into new zealand music that i'd never heard of
the clean, the skeptics, bailterspace etc.
in short
something needs to be done
because there are a lot of people out there who just see rockquest bands (barring a few ejector, carrige h) or mainstream videos and take that to be NZ music
there are a lot of things i've done which wouldn't have happened if i hadn't go to R18 gigs
it's not as simple as that
as i did drink every so often
but i could well face this all over again
if the drinking age is raised to 21 or something like that
i don't spend much on beer as it is
i go for the music...
what are other peoples experiences and opinions on this
is it the way it should be suddenly coming up with good live music at 18 or 21?


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I used to get my big sisters to take me ...
I used to get my big sisters to take me to the old Bar Bodega so I could see Garageland and Superette and The 3Ds when I was 16/17 and the drinking age was 20. I once snuck in with just my similarly aged friend to see Short play, and the doorman was just laughing at us. We didn't go to drink, because to me at that time you didn't wanna fuck with the sacred experience of live music and risk forgetting a second of it, so I'd have one malibu and coke and that would be it. If we were looking to drink, it'd be a bottle of Kristov62 mixed with a bottle of coke and drunk on the hump by Frank Kitt's.
I think it's great when bands play high schools cos they're pretty much guaranteed a big audience cos there's nothing else to do. Yeah.
i've had the advantage of looking ...
i've had the advantage of looking maybe 23/25 for a few years
when a few of my other friends instantly got denied i realised i had something good
and tryed to shut up about it!
i'd only make exceptions occasionally
yes 15 yr olds can get into new bodega
there seems to be a lot more forward attitude among orkland teens
is there much underage activity ?
or is it confined to all ages gigs?
i find the constant talking over music ...
i find the constant talking over music and general tomfoolery of my fellow gig goers irritating enough without having to contend with masses of teenagers. perhaps i have morphed into a bitter killjoy but the thought of my favourite venues resembling manners mall on any given night makes a move to the suburbs slightly more appealing.
would the solution not be to have more underage gigs? but the money for the venue comes from the bar, does it not? so i am unsure what the motivation would be. goodness of the heart doesn't seem to get much of an outing.
you've got a point hahaha it is ...
you've got a point
hahaha
it is different with just a few underagers desperatley trying to look mid 20's...
for the first couple of gigs i just sat at the front of the stage to the side drink orange juice
would going to "adult" gigs make teens more mature?
or is there a small minority of teens who deserve to be there?
i think if you dont act underage you ...
i think if you dont act underage you can get into many gigs. and no one likes people who act underage. especially if they are overage.
yes, i was going to say let the young ...
yes, i was going to say let the young ones sneak in as with the fear of being caught (i presume) they may act a little more appropriately. perhaps they should do away with age verfication and instead administer a series of small tests for moronity.
It's a bigger risk for bar owners than ...
It's a bigger risk for bar owners than for underage people
of course....
of course.
Interesting point, but have you ever ...
Interesting point, but have you ever been to an all ages show? It's not really like that...so easy to make sweeping generalisations about teenagers based on "mall behaviour" of a minority...
one big factor (and part of a vicious ...
one big factor (and part of a vicious circle) is that every time an all ages gig gets originised, either the originiser or the venue get shat on by the under-age patrons. now i'm not saying that all under agers are skum bags but it does make it harder when the next time comes around and you have to explain to the owner of the venue how "this time will be different...there won't be a sea of vom in the toilet"
The problem with most kids at all ages ...
The problem with most kids at all ages gigs, is that most of them are there cos their friends are, or to look cool/to be seen etc, rather than for the music. They seem to think that getting drunk or acting loud and obnoxious is cool. And hey, if you throw up, 10 bonus points. However, not all underage kids are like that. I most certainly am not. But this sort of bullshit (and the talking over music thing) is the very reason why i do not choose to go to such events. I dont go to bars to drink, but to see and hear bands live. I guess teens would benefit from having an all ages venue somewhere, but i find that at bars it is better, cos there arent any kids/scenesters being loud/silly, ruining the atmosphere and my enjoyment of the music (and others for that matter).
I'm underage. I go to gigs. I love it. ...
I'm underage. I go to gigs. I love it. First gig I ever snuck into was The Datsuns in Htown back in '03, I was sixteen then. As for now, thank God for that dark dingy bar in the corner of the street where ID checking is unheard of...
This may be unwarranted coming from me but underagers at gigs suck. I say no to overly inebriated 16 year old boys moshing obnoxiously in front of mortified punters who are trying to watch the band and enjoy the music. Oh and their skantily-clad girlfriends skanking up a storm with the latest Beyonce dance moves who seem to think that they're in a nightclub with strobelights as opposed to a pub with a live band. Tacky. Tasteless. Unwanted. BAN ALL UNDERAGERS! (except me. I'm cool as the day is long.)
Yea, there are plenty of underagers ...
Yea, there are plenty of underagers that want to see live shows.
here in invercargill quite a few of my mates from school are in fairly decent bands and last year they organised a few underage gigs during the year at one of the better concert venues in town. these were pretty good, quite a few people turned up and while there were plenty of skanks and all the rest of it they just tended to sit up the back looking angry while those that were into the music tended to hang up the front. The best thing about these was that any of these bands are quite different to what most of the kids are into so they heard some decent shit for a change and the badns got exposure.
At the start of last year when blindspott and mother guru came to town the gig was all ages. sweetas we thought, we can get into a good show. problem was that the venue decided all those under 18 should be confined to the upstairs seating, quite a way back from the stage and away from the moshpit. this decision could have ended in disaster, the upstairs balcony thingy is about 10 feet above the floor of the bottom level and there were a few kids who were damn close to leaping off just to get down closer to the bands. not to mention that while blindspott were playing we were told to try and be a bit more still as it appeared that the balcony was moving or sagging or some shit.
they ought to let underagers in, i think you'll find that with most bands its only those of us that actually want to see the music that will come
fuckin hell, could've had a cave creek ...
fuckin hell, could've had a cave creek sequel on their hands
I have been going to bar gigs since i ...
I have been going to bar gigs since i was 13- of course back then there was no such thing as photo ID's being the law as proof of age. I admit people I went with were always older than me as most of my friends were too scared to try. Even though the people were older than me, they too were there illegally, as none of them were out of high school yet.
Not many of us tried our luck at the bar, my brother and his hairy beard face being pretty much the only exception.
We came for the bands, and had a good time, trying very hard not to attract too much attention to ourselves or cause any trouble. The Dux is chch was the best place to go (right across the road from the central police station) - they seemed to have the most relaxed policy then, and the Edge was a close second. The Edge put on a few all ages gigs, but because they were never fully marketed as such most of the crowds that showed were over 20 anyway (or at least close to 20)
When the law changed to 18 it didn't bother me greatly as I was very close to turning 18 at the time, but I think it would be awful to raise it for the sake of kids who don't know how to drink responsibly. Many people who are 18 go to venues to enjoy the music, not to get munted - same goes for a lot of people who are "underage". But in all age groups there is always idiots who can't help themselves.
And its not limited to teenagers. I've seen my fair share of people which i would class as middle-aged acting like a thirteen year old who has just consumed half their parents liquor cabinet. If anyone wants to see a good example of middle aged people acting foolishly you only need to ride the 11:30pm ferry back to Waiheke Island on a Friday night. (They get on the boat drunk, proceed to consume more from the bar on board the boat, Get rowdy and annoying, then watch them get off the boat and into their cars to drive home)
i'll contest what you've said in your ...
i'll contest what you've said in your last post because with the lowering of the drinking age, the amount of teen binge drinking HAS risen, pointing to how access has been made easier but the education that was meant to follow has failed.
so until new zealand's drinking culture improves, kids are going to have to stay at AA shows, because as it is even the responsible ones jeapordise the existence of a venue. and i personally don't like the idea that someone who's even just 2 days off being 18 is capable of shutting down a bar where my fav bands play, just by the fact that they're standing there.
There should be some kind of system for ...
There should be some kind of system for people who want to just enjoy the show. Segregation is an option (like the invercargill example above) but I don't think it would work very well if you want young people to act with maturity in an environment which demands it.
The occasional all ages show in a usually licenced venue could be a good start, where underagers can easily be identified to not allow them to drink, but not exclude them from enjoying the show. I am especially refering to events like orientation at uni where a small group are not old enough to attend. Although this could become nearly the entire orientation crowd if the drinking age is raised.
I too don't want a venue to suffer because they have people under the legal drinking age in their bar (although door staff these days should probably take care checking ID's -I know I'm bad sometimes with it usually because I'm not paying close attention until they've walked away and I realise how young they look and then I hope the bar staff have the guts not to serve them just because they got past the door). I believe that underage people have just as much right to enjoy the music but there has to be a legal way this can happen in the future.
so far what's been resolved is what ...
so far what's been resolved is what laws we have in place- and that means kids under the age of 18 will have to have their parent or legal guardian with them at most shows. really i see a lot of kids moaning how they can't go to these shows, but they don't even consider hitting up their parents.
outside of that, there is no real solution, till we see a major shift in new zealand drinking culture- all the things you've proposed have actually happened but been made illegal because it doesn't work, and one or two people will ruin it, or is just to hard to police
//The occasional all ages show in a ...
//The occasional all ages show in a usually licenced venue could be a good start, where underagers can easily be identified to not allow them to drink, but not exclude them from enjoying the show.
This is a very common in Nelson, people were ID on arrival and those over 18 had a stamp placed on the wrist.
I have gone to R18s, all ages, youth venues, and those venues that allow accompanied U18s and speaking from a purly parental pov, I feel strongly that true all ages gigs are a good thing, this allows our teens to observe resonably responsible drinking, I happly allow my teen to attened these venues on her own, where as I am lothed to let her go to the youth venue, where over the top drunkness and bad behavour seem the norm.
I am comming to the conclusion that part of our binge thing is because teens are excluded from being part of adult culture and there for have no "rolemodels" and some how work on the missunderstanding that you have to "tank up" before you go out, so arrive at youth gigs pissed out of their tiny brains.more often than not the "kids" are there because it's the "place to be" and have little or no interest in the music.
It is only at youth venues that I have had to wade throu piss and blood and puke to get to the loos.
But then again I hate all drunkness, no matter how old the drunk is, nothing gets my goat quicker than a drunken dickhead talking trou a set, so maybe what we need is to separate the music venue where you can have a drink, from pubs that have live music, instead of separating the teens from the adults.
so what happens then? do we legalise ...
so what happens then? do we legalise underage drinking and hope that kids will get their responisble parents to monitor their drinking sensibly? kids are allowed to drink with their parents as it is, so maybe parents should introduce them to a little vino with their meal once in a while.
otherwise, stamping kids is an old practise (everyone now know why straight edger's "x" their hands) because it's still possible for them to discreetly get someone else to buy a drink for them. drunk people employ the same tactic, where they've been cut off for being too drunk, so their mate buys them a drink.
part of the problem is money i was ...
part of the problem is money
i was looking at holding an all ages gig
ten people putting in money and getting 10% of the profits
but it was tooo fucking hard
and i'm not in the situation to fork out $400 or what ever to hold one
every so often i get all saintly and benevolent and decide to hold an all ages gig
but i'll go to one and get pissed off at the people there
the only good all ages shows i've seen were devil gate drive and punkfest, DGD put on a great show
really knew how to work a crowd
but there aren't many other gigs around
maybe i should look to the package
it'd be wicked to get an all ages
with phoenix foundation or pine or someone of the calibre...
i just can't afford to make a loss :(
I shall chuck in my opinion. sorry if ...
I shall chuck in my opinion. sorry if it's lame and makes this whole thread sound like shit.
i am 16. it's 16 months till i turn 18. oh dear. i live in feilding. the hole of the world. over in palmy there is a great wee place called the stomach. they have gigs there most weekends. yippee!!! it's all ages and only costs $5. most of the time it's just the high school bands playing. every so often there's a band from wellington there. which is cool. but, the stomach doesn't attract any of the 'bigger' bands. its too small. the mint chicks played there in july - much to my disappointment i had been sick that week, so i couldn't go. so, its all yeehaa that we actually have an all ages venue, but poopoo we don't get many other bands apart from cathedra, maryland, riot girl etc etc.
my friend is from germany. she's from berlin. lucky thing. she goes out to gigs and stuff most weekends. she's just turned 17. they can go to pubs to see bands play. those that are underage get a little wrist band thing (i assume its one of those ones that you can't easily rip off), so they can't get drinks at the bar. a good idea? yes, possibly. i would be able to go to gigs. with my friends who turn 18 next year. instead of sitting outside.
i'd like to think that i'm one of the more sensible underagers. not one of those stupid skanks that prance around in short skirts and little tops that try to fuck the band members. somehow, they'd need some policy to keep those people out.
but seriously, they need to do something. all i want to do is see some decent live music sometime!! not all that bullshit thats on C4 select. the 4pm version...
crack me in half!! fucking band ...
crack me in half!! fucking band members?? short skirts haha yeh...its all true. i'm sixteen as well and i know what you mean about the age barrier! its bloody annoying! i went to this gig not to long ago in wellington and well...admittedly every one of us was under age and out of the 6 of us olny two-younger looking ones got asked for ID..and none of us were drinking....shows hw annoying it is to look young boohoo! but the point is that we should be able to go to gigs and....nt drink ackys but still enjoy the music....maybe bands ar'nt such a bad idea???Or put sum gigs else where
//really i see a lot of kids moaning ...
//really i see a lot of kids moaning how they can't go to these shows, but they don't even consider hitting up their parents.
has the thought ever occurred to you that some parents just cant be bothered taking their kids? ive tried asking my parents heaps to take me to gigs but it just doesnt work. thats why i have to resort to sneaking in or just plain not going, because i dont want to end up being looked down on by some people overage thinking that all i want to go there for is to get drunk.
of course i'm aware parents might not ...
of course i'm aware parents might not want to escort their kids to a loud music venue. but that's the only option you have legally. in any case, are you representative of all the underagers out there that try to get into gigs illegally? i'm willing to bet most of the teenagers out there don't want to be seen with their parents either, so that's why they don't count that option, or just think their olds wouldn't do it and don't bother asking.
but if you can't then YES stay home and not come out. because it's illegal for you to be there and you run the risk of shutting the venue down. if your livei n auckland i'm going to ask you to stay clear of bars too, because raids are being conducted. the police went into the kings arms last night, and they'll be back, so they are going to have to be more stringent with their id checks. good thing they didn't go in on the friday night...
yeah me and my friend from dunedin were ...
yeah me and my friend from dunedin were surprised to see the police last night. I've certainly never seen 6 (??) police walk into a bar when theres nothing violent going on. It felt very intimidating to have sucha big police presence in there.
Is this a common occurance in auckland? Or do you think the police are reading this thread and think this will encourage the younger NZM'rs to go to a gig put on by someone on here.
quite possibly they've been monitoring ...
quite possibly they've been monitoring this or other sites- it's pretty much common knowledge how slack tyhey are with ids at the ka. i hope this stops though, i don't want to see the kings arms go down simply because one kid has slipped through the net and jeapordised things for everyone else
i've seen ten police officers stream ...
i've seen ten police officers stream into indigo a couple of times
why do the cops have to always look so angry?
they wrap themselves in a of shroud of anger and suspicion
staring straight at you, sizing you up
does it have to be so threatening?
or am i just whinging?
whinge whinge whinge...
whinge whinge whinge
// the police went into the kings arms ...
// the police went into the kings arms last night, and they'll be back
So! Weird! I've never seen police at the KA, and there were at least ten of them. Then, just as everyone's looking around thinking WTF, one (male) policeman walked past me wearing earrings. Earrings! In both ears. Maybe they just wanted to get in free to see Gerling?
//i've seen ten police officers stream ...
//i've seen ten police officers stream into indigo a couple of times
//why do the cops have to always look so angry?
why does the Indigo bouncer have to always look so angry?
although he ID's at random haha glad ...
although he ID's at random
haha
glad though
as i can't find my passport at the mo
He smiles at me :)...
He smiles at me :)
//really i see a lot of kids moaning ...
//really i see a lot of kids moaning how they can't go to these shows, but they don't even consider hitting up their parents.
What about underagers like myself, who live away from home, so therefore can't get their parents/legal guardians to take them to a gig??
I went to Salmonella Dub + Kora + Sunshine Soundsystem in Invercargill in November. It was held in a venue where there was a bar, but there wasn't a person ID'ing at the door. Instead, they ID'ed you at the bar when you went to buy your drinks. Sure, that creates a bit more work for the bar staff, and yes, underagers could get friends to buy drinks for them... But if underagers want to drink they're going to get their hands on alcohol one way or another. Surely having an older friend with them who could control the amount that they could drink would be better than them getting trashed on the street somewhere and coma'ing out in the gutter somewhere?
I go to gigs in Invers, but only to see certain bands, and only to gigs with a door charge. If I know a band is playing that I want to see, I'll try and go, and seeing as I'm a music student I usually know the people on the door taking the money. They know I'm there to see the band and hear the music, and if I do get a drink, I don't go overboard.
Only 4 months until I turn 18 though, so shall not be a problem soon.
it's a big bar, they really should ...
it's a big bar, they really should have more than one. there was at least one other the last time i went, but he looked like he was being trained
he seems to know half the people who ...
he seems to know half the people who come through
if that's the head bouncer he seemed ...
if that's the head bouncer he seemed like an awfully jolly and sensible fella when he had to deal with this angus dude who we were abusing from the balcony..
head bouncer? theres only one at ...
head bouncer?
theres only one at indigo
hahaha
although as bouncers go he could be two
I started going to gigs at pubs when I ...
I started going to gigs at pubs when I was 16 (in Auckland.) I've never been totally denied entry to a venue, though often it's a fight to get in or stay in! I have a blatantly doctored photo ID card, but as it's not a universally recognised card, it's always a risk ($20 from STA travel, and the "I just got back from a year-long exchange and this is the only NZ ID I have" story).
A few times I've walked into a pub with no one on the door, and later been asked to show ID or leave by staff - though each time, I've just gone outside for half an hour and walked back in. Other than that, I think most of my success in getting into gigs is due to sympathetic door bitches, rather than good acting or dressing older.
I think it's a rather sensible idea to give over-18s wristbands or similar so that underagers can enjoy gigs without being denied for fear of drunken moronity - of all the gigs I've been to, AA and R18, it's generally the 20-somethings who are the worst-behaved, not the young'uns. Though I suppose, as always, it boils down to paying the venue and the band and the gear etc. - of course a bar will earn more if the majority of the audience can buy booze; a venue-full of under-18s with neon "don't serve me alcohol" wristbands will squeeze out a potentially big-spending over-18 audience.
"I think it's a rather sensible idea ...
"I think it's a rather sensible idea to give over-18s wristbands or similar so that underagers can enjoy gigs without being denied for fear of drunken moronity - of all the gigs I've been to, AA and R18, it's generally the 20-somethings who are the worst-behaved, not the young'uns."
most bars aren't willing to do the wrist band/hand marking method, because it then becomes their responsibility to police it- and it's damned easy for a kid to get someone else to buy their drink for them. i'm guessing that's why the law doesn't even bend for bars that do that, because it's still illegal under our law for someone under 18 to be in a bar, wristband or no.
as for the second part, there's no way you can summarise which age group is the worst drinkers- there's always fuckwits, and often it's not entirely the fault of the drink- but our lack of decent alcohol education and culture means that people in our country are going to drink to access when given the chance
until the legislation is changed to ...
until the legislation is changed to make the onus on the patrons, not the bars, we are always gonna have a reluctance to have all ages shows at licenced venues, its not difficult to get a liquor liscence allowing for both underagers and those of legal age (especially for a one off event), but when a bar (and its staff) are up for a $10000 fine for serving someone underage, of course their gonna be a bit reluctant to let kiddies in.
i see all ages events as a kind of futureproofing - the more kids you can get involved in your chosen 'scene' , the more patrons you will have in future, most people are surprisingly loyal, and it scares me the number of kids whose idea of nightlife (in wellington at least) consists of the Fat Ladies Arms, the Sportscafe and a few other shitty beer barns...its very hard to find someone who hates live music, but a lot of people never get to see it outside international events, or christmas in the park, and that saddens me...
i'm thinking its about time i organised a big fuck-off hall party....
well the issue of where the fault lies ...
well the issue of where the fault lies is how the government actually polices the law- if it was the fault of person themselves being underaged, and not the bar, as the bar i can serve the person as much alcohol as i want, and seeing as the police are too few to be able to watch EVERY bar in the country and check their ids, people will drink illegally- by making it the responsibility of the bar onwers, it means that it becomes the manager's duty to make sure the law is abided. and the risk of a 10000 buck fine is enough to uphold that. it's how they're doing things with the smoking ban too. it's jsut common sense really...
i don't think it is common sense at ...
i don't think it is common sense at all, its not the bartenders or bar managers fault if you're a stupid cunt with no self control, most bars won't serve intoxicated people anyway, because intoxicated people are a pain and vomit and fight and such.....fining those who provide a service doesn't solve new zealands drinking problems, but punishing those who personify the problem is far more sensible..
don't even get me started on the anti smoking legislation by the way...i'm already sick of people standing in every fucking doorway in town....
basically, if people were sensible ...
basically, if people were sensible about drinking, the age limit wouldn't be necessary...and don't tell me kids aren't able to cope with the responsibility....they do in most countries without an issue
//don't even get me started on the ...
//don't even get me started on the anti smoking legislation by the way...i'm already sick of people standing in every fucking doorway in town....
It was nice to fall asleep last night without the smell of cigarette smoke in my hair. Its nice to know i'm now not contributing to my chances of dying of lung cancer by going to a gig.
//i don't think it is common sense at ...
//i don't think it is common sense at all, its not the bartenders or bar managers fault if you're a stupid cunt with no self control
It's nothing to do with whose fault it really is - but if the law makes the bar accountable, then rather than just having the police uphold the law, they now have the police *and* bar staff trying to uphold it - resulting in far fewer underagers in bars. Perhaps it's not fair, but it's definitely common sense.
ok i obviously have to repeat myself ...
ok i obviously have to repeat myself AGAIN- at least heather covered the first part to my rant, as for saying that there'd be no problem if people were sensible about drinking, well that's WHY we have this legislation. because new zealanders are fucking dicks about their piss and don't know how to handle themselves, whereas in other countries they conduct themselves with a bit of class. that's why we need these laws because we can't control ourselves. you DO know it's actually illegal to be drunk in a bar don't you?
//i'm thinking its about time i ...
//i'm thinking its about time i organised a big fuck-off hall party//
HAH! Good luck buddy...halls don't hire to "young people" anymore...never mind, you'll have to sprout a few more grey hairs.
// you DO know it's actually illegal ...
// you DO know it's actually illegal to be drunk in a bar don't you?
of course it is, its also illegal to drive above 20kph past a school bus....
my major bone is that the law treats bars as if they are a public place, when they obviously aren't , someone owns the bar and you are there on their terms, just like being in someones house...in my view if they want you to get drunk, then so be it, and if they want to let underagers in, then so be it it as well...
anyway, moving on.....
under age events would be more common if kids weren't so damn fickle..i've organised many youth events now, and often kids will either come en masse because its 'cool' or not at all because it isn't even if the same bands are playing at the same venue on 2 different days...
obviously you expect variation in turnout, but with young people it seems much more polarised...
which is a further problem with all ...
which is a further problem with all ages shows- kids are more likely going to go to the shows that have the shit arse bands they hear on the radio anyways. not because there's an AA show on, where they can check out some new shit.
in either case it just doesn't seem sensible for the bar owner to try and pull an AA crowd. no money, and that's been proven time and again with all the lack-luster AA venures that have come and gone