what if its true?? can't it be nice?? is there something wrong in being a homo??

what gives you the right to say what is right & what is wrong?? whatever they do in their own bedroom is their own fucking business not yours. Do you really think they're gonna to get you & rape you??

// If you think sticking your dick in another dudes ass is the right thing to do, there is something wrong with you.

But your cool if i stick my dick in a girls ass right?
Just wanting to clear that up with you.

//There is. If you think sticking your dick in another dudes ass is the right thing to do, there is something wrong with you.

no, there is something seriously wrong with u if u are too blind to see that sex is sex, love is love... and it doesnt matter if its between 2 guys, 2 girls, or one of each. people like you make me want to scream and throw things.

i was actually meaning "pulsations" was a homo
if ur pretending to be a girl online you might be a bit gay

...Whatever, if u all wanna support gays go ahead and do so. I have a different oppinion to you.

Dim_Anthropy

Theres nothing wrong with being a homo! But to imply the fact that Emokid was a homo was not nice. From what we know, Emokid is not an open homo. So to call her/Him a homo without knowing his/her sexual orientation i find is actually quite offencive. People who are "Homo's" Probably could agree that the use of that word was inapropriate? I'm just saying in my opinion that another word could have been used instead of one that is a derogatory comment towards Homosexuals

Did i make that understandable?

Please don't bite off my head!

What would be acceptable?

Umm.. In my opinion.. Probably yes.. I dunno actually.. It depends if Emokid was offended my the term homo.. If you were openly gay and someone called you a homo to put you down, would you take it to offence?

uh, how so, some of the things they want are basic human rights that other people take for granted. Especially financial and hospital related things.

but as for the whole is it okay to pretend to be a girl online, other than it being kind of sad, its not very good if the other person is being sincere when they talk to you.

//Ass on a girl is all good - grim_entropy

ask any gay mates of yours if they have had 'relations' with women. Most gays have, hell many have children. what does that say about 'orientation', and please don't tell me they 'did it to feel accepted', do you really think you could get jiggy wth a man in a alt. reality gay world just to be accepted?

Rdor - what you've written contradicts my experiences and those of many of my gay mates.

//what you've written contradicts my experiences

and mine. i can see where you're coming from, cos i was there myself once - how Queen Victoria thought when presented with legislation outlawing lesbians - she refused to sign because she thought it just wasn't possible or do-able.

but just because you can't comprehend it, doesn't mean that it isn't illogical, and absolutely enjoyed by a huge number of different people around the world.

i still don't know what i am, but don't really care much about finding a specific label/place - gender in who i'm attracted to means nowt to me - it's as arbitrary as hair colour (and i definitely prefer brunettes, but don't ever rule out blondes or redheads) - gender is a category which doesn't make any sense in saying "off limits" to me. people are nice, and i like some people. but that's just me.

you may not understand it, and it might seem like mental illness to you, but it's absolutely perfectly logical to me, and i don't think your heterosexuality is narrow or illogical or limited - it's just who you are too. like i prefer brunettes, you prefer the opposite sex. that's just the way you are - problem is, that's just the way society is - it was a big freaking day of exploding three-dimensionality and colour when i realised that i didn't have to think like Queen Vic anymore, things could be done, and the way the whole of society seems to think in majority is not a dead end.

Could you shag an ugly chick?

define ugly

but man and women are different, not just in a butch vs feminine way. Sexuality exists in part because of such subtle differences, you find whats missing in you in someone of the opposite gender. The fascination with the 'other'. Your right in that I can't percieve desire oustide of this..

//you find whats missing in you in someone of the opposite gender.

i see what you mean with the first bit, but it doesn't apply for me with the second part of that sentence.

my mate who's in developmental psych says it's a theory that's not given much credence these days though. yeah, it applies in terms of you teaming up with someone who has a different immune system - that's important for offspring, but there's another theory - it was shown real quick in a couple of documentaries - the one about the face (starring John Cleese) - they took his facial traits and embedded them in a range of people - the ones he thought were attractive were the ones who had his checkbones, eyes etc.

so this theory proposes that we look for a little of our parents' attributes in prospective partners. i think i saw a similar experiment in the Body Hits series as well - i dunno if it's true, but what you theorise and this theory sound perfectly plausible to me ... but i don't know that it applies to gender per se.

in my experience, i don't find what's missing in me in people i find attractive, not all the time. especially not with women - i tend to go (as far as surface appearances go) for women like me - curvy, brunette, swear like troopers, and as far as guys go, i like slender, quiet pretty-boy gazelles. well, that's the trend anyway, generally speaking.

as shown throughout nature, there are societial reasons for bisexuality and homosexuality - it might not have much to do with genes and passing them on, but these dymanics forge relationships that make the community stronger. i guess we humans rationalise it in comparison ... there was a recent New Scientist article on how the 'gay' gene is passed on ... but it's too early in the day to summarise it.

ratioanalise it how you want, if you like you can explain all human behavior through a combination of genetics and environment but if your not at least open to the possiblity that some human tendencies are 'mental' and just plain self centred thne your as bigoted as I am. Like for instace using another person for sex whenour not interested in a long term relationship with them. That's wrong. using someone body as a masturbation aid. But it's also very common gay or straight thing to do, but being a bigot, I would also think something similar about bisexuality, that fact that its doenst discriminate sounds like it's all about sex Unless I'm wrong and ther a heaps of bi's living asg commited couples

There we go again...

// but if your not at least open to the possiblity that some human tendencies are 'mental' and just plain
// self centred thne your as bigoted as I am.

See, that's a big "if". Who has said they are not open to that possibility?

If I say the things you think are shit are OK, that is NOT the same as saying everything is OK.

//by 2

i mean doubled.

actually, there are people out there who are all sex sex sex, but i dunno if orientation is the way to spot them.

possibly, but there's something to be said for being outside the mainstream - when you realise you are a little different to the convention, i know that some people suddenly realise they can reinterpret the rules of engagement and decide to have open relationships, casual relationships etc. because you feel that you are outside of the mainstream and can hook up with likeminded others who want similar things. inevitably, coming out can mean that those thoughts cross your mind, but i wouldn't call them self-centred myself, and i don't think everyone who comes out ever wants to act upon them or always want to avoid committed relationships.

again, this is just me - i hope not talking on behalf of the whole bi community or anything. i just happen to be picky and in a committed relationship.

Both parties are playing with the same rules then its all good.

and some of us are ten times the man you'll ever be