BREAK UPS

me and mi bf just broke up and i feel like shit anyone have some advice or just want to talk obout their experiences???

Forums: The Bar,

Well I think it depends on the circumstances of why you two broke up. Did he cheat on you? Or was it a mutual agreement? Is it just a "break" or is it "the end". There are so many factors involved that all I can say is it does get better even though it doesn't feel like it at the moment.....

yeh he cheated on me!! like 4 months ago and did not tel me until a few days ago!

That is shit. How long were you going out with him? I have a friend of mine who was going out with this guy for 5 years, he went away on a work trip one weekend and came back and said that he was now seeing one of his workmates. But the cool thing is that although she was devastated at the time she has now met someone that she really is happy with.
As far as I'm concerned, it isn't worth spending any more energy on thinking about how it all went wrong etc., definately take some time out hanging out with mates and doing stuff like that. Eventually you'll forget about him and move on to better things.

6months i know its not long but stil. he has not fukin right to pis me around

hun's hot tip:
do all the things you enjoy but "weren't allowed" to do when you were together - hang out with the friends he didn't like, see a movie you wouldn't have got to see if he'd been choosing, bump n' grind with a hotty at the fats, wear those beautiful grey flannel tracksuit pants he use to cringe at, etc.

Sometimes you just have to roll with the punches.

and be wary if he tries to make up...

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thats deep tclak.

my last g/f just took off back to New Plymouth - she said she'll ring and email when she got back home, 5 years later im still waiting for that email/phone call - Frankly I Can no longer be bothered with that hoe.

omg thats really sad!!!! some ppl really dont giv a fuk about ur feelings. hrrpph!

I Know - but now ive moved on and i cant really be fucked about that mingaz anymore.

stalk the shit out of him......make him realise that you can't live without him and that you aren't going to let him live without you.

don't let him see he has such an effect on you! Grieve quietly...it will only make him feel like the man if he sees, "wow this girl really can't get over me, i must be great"...boys suck, don't give in to them!

lol ok i'll do that but its really hard

I know it is hun, but just think, you'll meet someone better and treat u right! U deserve respect girl!
Let him see you're better off without him (even if it doesn't feel like it) and see how he feels about that! so HA! .. :D

If you cant live without im in your life he cant live at all i say - kill the cheatin bastard

IN your life

Yes, thats it, GRAB THE AXE!

3,6,9 standing real fine move it to you sing it to me one mo time
Get low, Get low [6x]
To the window, to the wall, (to dat wall)
To the sweat drip down my balls (MY BALLS)
To all these bitches crawl (crawl)
To all skit skit motherfucker (motherfucker!) all skit skit got dam (Got dam)
To all skit skit motherfucker (motherfucker!) all skit skit got dam (Got dam)

have 4 good liits- 1 every 1/2 hr- & listen to

emmylous i dont have to crawl
bacharach/davids make it easy on yourself- spec bacharachs vers
tonio ks hatred
then a party mix

if you love something let it go--- blah blah blah

*hug*

OWWWWW!

Vomit.

did discgolfer hug you with razorblades or something?

An axe maybe?

spend a whole night by yourself -nuthing like a face mask, bubblebath, hair treatment and self done manicure (think-thorough physical cleansing/beautifying) to make a girl feel good lol works for me...or at least, next time you bump into him, you'l look great. (and spend heapsa time catchin up wif ppl you may have abandoned when you had ur bf to keep u busy!)

oh my god i just sounded like a writer for girlfriend or dolly---shoot me now!!!

With plesure.. *Loads a shot gun*

Ready!?

pull trigger.............NOW

Hey thats exactly what my gf did to me... and i know it hurts like anything... but she was feeling really bad about the whole thing so we talked it through and now things are great... was he really sorry for what he did and have the balls to tell you about it? or was he just a complete dick about it?

Mate - you're a braver person than I. I'm pretty much one that doesn't give second chances, I don't know how you go about trusting of that person who cheated on you. It would drive me nuts. But I guess without knowing the full history it's an outside judgement.

yea my story was really brief, but i could tell she was about as gutted as i was about the whole thing... and she had the courage to own up to what she did.
the whole thing brought us closer than we were before

he was a complete dick, it was like i was neva there and if i was it was only as a FRIEND!! i love nz music ppls they r SO full of helpful advice
cheers

no worries

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